I am a 18 year old girl. When I was 17 i met a guy, that guy is 27 yeard old we dated each other and now it has being 5 months. I am madly in love with him. He is the only guy that has respected for who i am and I enjoy being with him. The only problem is that he is my family memeber hes my cousin. Now half of the family knows and am scared that my dad will find out. I talk to him and i told him that i needed sometime he doesnt get it and he told me to marry him. I know that this is wrong but i dont know what to do? i am scared! We have talk and he tells me if I let him go that he would kill himself or sign in the army. And before he does that he would come and tell my dad so he could kick me out of my house. He argues with me and he tells me that he hurts me because he doesnt want me to let go. So that way he scares me. I need help!