I've always been dating and I haven't found a guy that reaches my standards of my perfect guy..I've been friends with this guy and I think hes charming,nice personality, funny, and nice. I've met his cousin.. wow!! that just changed my mind completely, and although I barely talk to him, I've started to flirt, but I get this gey vibe all the time.. is this just me, and my insecureness and doubtfulness about finding the right guy or can this perfect guy be for real??