Last year, I met this guy down at the local club, quite by chance. I nearly didn't go out that night, as I'd been having problems at home, I'd had a bad year so was a bit of a hermit and generally 'run down' and in a rut. So, I was dragged out at the last minute by a couple of girlfriends, and there was a group of guys over visiting and in the club. I wasn't interested in meeting anyone, but this one guy, who one of my friends had her eye on, he showed out to me, so we sat, had a drink, and got talking, and when I casually asked him when his birthday was, it turns out that we shared the same date of birth, he was a year younger.It was all very Cinderalla that night, he was almost my dashing Prince Charming. So we exchanged phone numbers, started texting each other, and after a few weeks, I realised, that I was falling in love with him. I told him of how I felt, and he reproicated by calling me, getting quite romantic, sending me rose picture texts. He invited me down and after umming and arring, getting quite panicky as I was so scared how I felt about seeing him again, I finally plucked up the courage to go down, but it turned into a mess, as he said that he was away when I was due to go down. I went anyway, as I was seeing some friends.. and after that, things started to cool off with us.. where we ended up losing touch up until our birthday this year. I'd kept his number, so that I could wish him a happy birthday, and he text me back, telling me to keep in touch, which I have. .but I still have feelings for the man, still think that we were destined to be together, the feelings never really went away.. and now I feel awkward, as I'm trying to keep things light and not too heavy.. and I'm not sure where to go with this now. I'm kind of at two's and three's with it all. He text me some jokes at the weekend, nothing actually as in a personal text asking how I am or anything.. and I could do with some good old advice as to what to do next. Any advice would be great. Thanks. From an Aquarian totally besotted by another Aquarian who just so happens to share the same birthday as me.