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I always try to hold back with guys bcoz im scared that i will get hurt. Ive been goin out with my boyfriend now for about 4 months and have completly fallen in love with him. He tells me he loves me too and he was the first person that i have slept with. Recently he has become a little less bothered. If i text him he doesnt really text me back and i can go for a quite a few days without him calling me. I know he would never ever cheat on me (bcoz i wud actually kill him lol) but i just feel like he doesnt feel the need to try with me any more. I constantly tell him i love him and how gorgous i think he is which has probably now gave him a big head lol. To me it seems like he is thinkin that he has got me now and no longer has to make an effort because i love him. Am i just being stupid?? Are all guys soo laid back after a while?? Please help...i should be enjoying myself not worrying...im still only young lol |
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don't get so attached/
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Well let me tell you I used to be just like you but not anymore....I finally grew up and started playing hard to get and not falling so hard for a guy after my first heartbreak I made sure he honestly loved me before I told him I loved him so he wouldnt think that he had me wraped around his finger and now Im not so easy and Im in a relationship now that I have been in almost a year it will be a year in 3 months so hang in there dont fall so hard and dont feel like you love him just because he pays you attention let them they love you first and if they are telling the truth you will no good luck I didnt think I sould do it either but just me if I can you can too good luck gurl I am here for you cause I have been there done that and not going to do it again.... TTYL |
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Hey wait a while it's only been four four months and who knows if the guy won't turn his back on you within a year. I had it happen to me. |
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thanx thts really helped me :) i do try and be quite "hard to get" with him but it doesnt seem to work, i do love him and he always tells me that he loves me but now there has been a few things annoying me...he doesnt make an effort to see me or phone/txt me atall, i probably get 1 txt from him a week and he expects me to reply wenever he txts me evn tho he ignores my txts :( ahhh its really buggin me but wen i try to be angry with him...i end up thinkin about him and by the time i see him again im not angry so i dont bring it up??!! help :( ? |
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it sounds as if he is your life, and you dwell on the things he does/doesn't do. so maybe if you went out with your gfs more, picked up a new hobby, basically focus your attention on something more than just him, it wont matter what he does/doesnt do. |
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or maybe your texting him like all the time and he really cant be arsed..maybe your to clingy?!? |
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You sound like me. You say you love him, you told him, thats all you can do. If he loves you he will show effort. I know its hard to go for days without him. But it its meant to be, then its meant to be. So, ENJOY LIFE!! |
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I m still in love with my ex and he is too but i m scared that it won t work between us or that i ll get hurt again!! I love him very much and i don t want to loe him but at the same time i m scared! |
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All i can say is that you are the only one who knows how you feel abwt him but i can tell ya i was wit my ex 4 jus ova 3 years and wen it gets ova a year den u know its love. Jus cuz u bin wit him a few mnths dnt mean u love im it cud jus be u think its ment to be! give it tym plz listen to me. until u know its love dont get commitin urself i did that n it hurts even mre later on den it will now. ur rite ur only young so live a little i woz 14 wen i first got wit my ex n now im 17 n missed out on hanging rnd wit friends n everythin. wait for a while n let him say e luvs u if e actually does; then ur no if its ment to be. good luck! |
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im going to be honest here with you cos i have been in the same boat b4 this guy is a jerk and his seeing someone else he got what he wanted from u and is trying to let u down easy his not worth it let him go gurl find ur self a good man who will love u just as much as u love him i know what ur thinking right now i cant ,i love him ,its hard at first but u will get over it lifes tough u have to be strong person |
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