Im not sure what to do. About 2 years ago I met a man. We dated and I eventually moved in with him. We lived together for a while but it just was not working. Financially, I was putting up too much money and ended up broke all the time while he had tons of money to play with. He didnt give me the affection I wanted and I constantly felt he didnt want to be with me. I ended up moving out. We remained friends for a while, stupidly staying over and sleeping with him. Then he met someone and I got the boot immediately. He wouldnt talk to me and I just left him a lone. A couple months later, he calls me. His girlfriend had ended up pregnant and got an abortion, which tore him to pieces. He confided in me. We became friends again, this was in June. We have slept together twice since and he constantly wants me to stay over. But we are supposed to be "just friends". He knows I honestly wants more. I told him the other night that I was not spending the night over anymore, since we are just friends. He has said he doesnt want a relationship or a commitment. But then again he went out on a date the other night and I think he is honestly looking for someone. Im not sure what to do. Keep being friends with him? Keep trying for more? Im afraid he will find someone else and I will get the boot again. Im just all twisted up!