MY SISTER-IN-LAW TO BE IS VERY SELFISH BECUZ SO FAR, WE(BRIDES MAIDS) HAVE ATTENDED 2 BRIDAL SHOWERS, ONE BACHLORETTE PARTY, THE OTHER ONE IS IN TWO WEEKS, BUT I MUST MENTION THE 2ND IS IN NEW YORK CITY WHICH INCLUDES PLANS TO GO TO A BROADWAY PRODUCTION FOLLOWED BY A LONG WEEKEND OF FINE DINING, SHOPPING, AND LOTS OF DRINKING (HOTEL ROOM, TRIP TO NEW YORK, PARKING HERE AND THERE, COST OF FOOD, COST TO GO TO SHOW, AND ANOTHER FLIPPING GIFT TO GIVE TO THE SELFISH, BLOOD SUCKING PRINCESS) MOST OF US BRIDESMAIDS ARE WORKING CLASS, IN SCHOOL, ETC....SO, FOR THE PAST YR. MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN STRESSED OUT ABOUT BEING A PART OF THEIR WEDDING AND STRUGGLE TO PAY OUR BILLS, ALONG WITH SOME OF THE OTHER BRIDESMAIDS WHO HAVE BEEN SECRETLY EMAILING EACH OTHER ABOUT THE FINANCIAL BURDEN THE WEDDING HAS BESTOWED ON THEM AS WELL. AT THIS POINT IN TIME, NO ONE IS EXCITED ABOUT THIS RIDICULOUS WEDDING ...THE GROOM(MY BROTHER-IN-LAW) IS SO OBLIVIOUS AND SEEMS TO NOT HAVE ANY SAY IN THE MATTERS...HELL, HE'S IN FOR A RUDE AWAKENING...I AM VERY BITTER ABOUT THE BLOOD SUCKING BRIDES EXPECTATIONS FROM EVERYONE, AS IF THE WORLD HAS ALL THE TIME AND MONEY TO INVEST IN HER SELFISH ASS.....ANGRY AND ANNOMYOUS HERE ON THE EAST COAST